The symbolism of a run on guns starting on the morning after Barack Obama’s election victory is almost too much to take. Finally, a black man is walking up the front steps to the nicest house in town, the one we all look to with reverence each time we pass, the one whose residents always more attention than any others in the neighborhood…and white people are scrambling for their guns.

Amazing.

Before you get defensive, let me clarify that I think that if Obama was a strong Second Amendment advocate, gun owners and ammo lovers would not think that he’s going to pass some sort of gun control designed to either take their guns–presumably “from their cold dead hands”–or make it nearly impossible to buy more. In other words, I think that for most of these post-election gun enthusiasts, the fact that Obama is black has nothing to do with mad scramble for protection.

Did I just say “most”? Let me think about this again. Bill Clinton supported gun controls that were more extreme than those supported by Obama. Clinton supported the Brady Bill and an assault weapons ban. Obama wants people to be limited to purchasing one handgun per month! (In case you’re not counting, that is twelve per year, or nearly fifty in a four year period.) OK, so Obama does support allowing local governments to shape their own gun laws, more extensive background checks, curtailing the sale of armor piercing bullets, and semi-automatic weapons. But still, Clinton campaigned on gun control and I don’t recall lines at gun shops on the days following his victory.

Alright, I won’t delve into cynicism. Maybe this economic melt down has everyone edgy and wondering whether a serious run on the banks might look like the urbanized 21st century version of the “Gunfight at the OK Corral.” Get one more gun…just in case.

Let me think positively and assume that white people are not afraid–well not most of them anyway–that black people are going to get out of hand. I’ll maintain that the law-abiding center of middle white America is not afraid, that the people plopping guns down on the counters represent the fringe elements who believe the spam emails that are sent to them and still think Obama is a Muslim. But that center of middle America still thinks that our paramilitary police forces will still have the upper hand and they know how many guns white people own?

In my most optimistic state of mind, these antsy gun buyers simply fear one particular black man, not all of them.

Certainly all of this is one way to see how the United States has evolved as a nation because not long ago many more white people clearly would have been running for their weaponry. Seriously…probably the entire population of white people.

It’s just the juxtaposition that makes me shake my head and ponder the irony that even the white power fighting, Black Panther supporting, Africa uniting, afro wearing black activists of the sixties could not have scripted this any better. “Why of course,” I can hear them saying, “the white man just can’t let it go.”

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OK…so I’ve heard what I’m about to say so many times now that it’s almost unthinkable to imagine myself adding to the chorus. But like every other pundit writing sound bites to the amorphous public, I have my own unique perspective and I can’t seem to rest until I put it out there.

Obama. This is big. Really. For the countless interactions we haphazardly define as “race relations” in this country, I have to say that this is probably as BIG as the Civil Rights Movement. Here’s what I see.

I heard from someone that upon realizing that Obama won the election Whoopi Goldberg said something to the effect of, “I feel as though I can finally unpack my bags.” All but a few black people know exactly what she meant. Other people of random backgrounds have no idea what she was referring to. And some people no doubt get her point exactly and feel flabergasted at yet another person of African descent proclaiming that he or she has never felt like a full citizen. Let me make it real.

I know lots of people who never got that essential unconditional love as a child. Surely you know some of them also, right? No matter what they do, regardless of the successes they accumulate along the way, they always want some kind of intangible recognition that will presumably satisfy the deep seated yearning for acceptance and inform them that they are good enough. I must confess, I have a low tolerance for these people. Maybe it’s because I seemed to manage quite fine in the quest for self love without having received a tremdous amount as a child; perhaps it’s simply because I have a disposition that neither craves nor benefits from the love and recognition I receive from others around me.

In any case, when I encounter people like this I am often left wondering what it could possibly take for them to finally look in a mirror and say the imortal words of Stuart Smally, the Saturday Night Live character: “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it, people like me.” For some people, of course, the answer is “nothing”; tt is never going to happen. For others, however, it can be one simple random achievement or a long-awaited rocognition from someone in their lives.

So let’s flip the script and look at African Americans (as opposed to West Indians and more recent immigrants from Africa). Here is a population of people who were never accepted. In fact, they were called and treated as “beasts” and “sub humans” and every attempt to integrate them into the American fold and treat them as people with the inalienable rights as spelled out in the Constitution was met with violent and (usually) bloody resistance. This is true right up into the second half of the 20th century. Sure, each decade seemed to offer its own unique opening, but watching the police turn the dogs loose on peaceful demonstrators in the 1960s or the prisons fill will non-violent black men in the 1980s and 90s, leads me to conclude that those “rights” were often handed out sparingly.

So imagine the collective trauma and the stories people passed through their communities that allowed them to hold their heads up and see themselves as fully human when most everyone else did not agree. Without getting sacchrine and drawing on white guilt, I think that reading the post 1865 history of black America is the only way to fully envision how remarkable it is that this community remained both strong and proud.

Let me help make this more real. Consider the mythology that a child must create to explain how he or she is still a wonderful person in spite of the fact that that child’s parents have told him or her repeatedly to look in the mirror and see worthless, good for nothing trash. Sure, they might have an endearing uncle or neighbor who warns not to listen, who tries to reassure with statements like, “Don’t listen to him, honey, you’re really quite beautiful. You’re a little princess.” Unfortunately, it is not difficult to imagine that for all but a handful of such child victims of parental brutality such words understandibly fall on deaf ears.

Back to the African American community.

Throughout slavery there was a black professional class — doctors, dentists, lawyers, professors and teachers. It was small but it offered hope and an alternative vision for some. The end of slavery marked a relatively small uptick in possibility (since not much really changed in 1865), and some expansion of that hope in the black community. Over time this professional class grew, a black middle class emerged, a unionized and dignified working class started to take root. And then there were black mayors and CEOs and Generals and Congressional Representatives and even two Secretaries of State.

But it wasn’t the mountaintop. White society never said “not only do we accept you, but actually we want to follow you…so why don’t you lead us all of us.” There is something about that cherished office, the highest in the land, and how giving the keys to a black American has symbolic meaning that cannot be measured. You see, like that broken person who never got that love, there have been just too many black people for whom those other achievements were not enough. Almost…but not quite.

This is the ultimate welcoming to Americans of African descent, the one that far too many have wanted but, I can safely say, never expected so suddenly. And it is why black Americans by the millions are feeling as though they can finally unpack their bags and make themselves at home.

As someone who has spent nearly twenty years on the front lines of race and ethnic relations in the United States, I can say with confidence that this is really big.

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OK…so “paranoia” is a strong word. But I wanted to grab your attention. Perhaps projection is a better way to describe a couple of things that I’m hearing.

First, Obama received support from 43 percent of white voters, while 55 percent of the white electorate voted for McCain. On one hand, this is seen by many people as a remarkable achievement. Imagine that. Some 43 percent of non Hispanic white Americans–remember that white people represent slightly less than 70 percent of the total American populace–case their ballot for a president of color. Take yourself back two years and imagine someone telling you that. How many of us would have believed it?

On the other hand, I have heard some somewhat disgruntled mumbling about how it was “only” 43 percent of white Americans. The underlying sentiment with that word “only” thrown in is that not even half of white America supported his presidency.

Such concerns are befitting a people who have a short attention span for the details of history, but they do not account for one powerful anecdotal fact: that 43 percent is a remarkable achievement when compared with past presidential campaigns. Consider the percentage of non Hispanic whites who voted for the following presidents:

2004 Kerry – 41 percent
2000 Gore – 42 percent
1996 Clinton – 43 percent
1992 Clinton – 39 percent
1988 Dukakis – 40 percent
1984 Mondale – 35 percent
1980 Carter – 36 percent

Obama beat all of them except Clinton’s second campaign, a president who by that time was often referred to as our “first black president.” The truth is, the majority of white Americans are Republican or Independent while blacks and other racial minorities lean heavily Democratic. This heavily impacts those numbers.

On another note, and this is more in line with paranoia, I’ve heard many black people voice their concern that Obama is going to be “judged more harshly” than previous (white) presidents simply or primarily because he’s black. This reflects old school thinking emerging out of the black community and it’s definitely not without merit. Anyone with an honest eye on race relations would conclude that black Americans have undoubted been held to a higher standard than other people, especially white Americans. This is not news to anyone paying attention, especially black people.

But in fairness, if black people go into the Obama years wearing these lenses, then we’re in for some serious disagreements because ALL presidents are “judged harshly,” even for silly seemingly mundane decisions. Obama has just taken the world’s worst job. For every friend he’ll make two enemies. For each slap on the back he’ll receive another in the face. Remembering the harsh way in which all U.S. presidents are judged will do wonders for averting unnecessary arguments about the kind of job our new president is doing.

So all of the people who have had this concern, get ready for your man to take a harsh smack down for the next four or eight years. Trust me, it goes with the job.

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I’m sure some people are confused about the difference between a “marriage” and a “civil union” and don’t understand why it matters to many people in the LGBT community which one they are are allowed to experience. Here’s my quick take on the core argument, and keep in mind that I’m not a constitutional scholar.

Here is a prefatory comment.

Religiously inclined Americans hold a wide range of ideological perspectives when it comes to the nexus between civil society and their churches. Some, like the televangelist Pat Robertson, think this is a christian nation and that Christian “rules” and “laws” should dictate the behavior of the people living inside of the boundaries of the United States. Others, such as Jehovah’s Witnesses, call for a severe separation of church and state and do not even support voting.

So what about marriage?

Depending on where you stand on the continuum, it is either a legal dictate of our secular government or a covenant from god…or both. Sociologically speaking, in every society there must be some sort of legal union that is sanctioned by the state or cultural leaders because people who hinge their lives together must account for emergent legal issues such as who is eligible to be a beneficiary of a person’s life insurance, land and other estate payments. For example, are parents, spouses, or children primary beneficiaries?

But over time, such “legal unions” have come to involve god and so most religious bodies weigh in on how they are performed and what they signify. Generally speaking, the terminology changes when god enters the picture and we start calling these unions “marriages.” And herein lies the brouhaha.

Why would anyone come to imagine that the “proper” coupling who deserves a marriage license must be a man and a woman? Where did we get this idea? Why religion, of course. We just walked into murky water.

And it gets murkier. Religious leaders in the United States have the power to dictate the conditions of these unions (i.e., marriages) that bind people together and settle secular legal questions and claims. In other words, people acting “on behalf of god” involve themselves in the affairs of the state — which means that they are also acting, in effect, as “functionaries” of the government. So one would think that they should either marry everyone who wants to be married or be relieved of the power to perform ceremonies for select individuals on behalf of the government, ceremonies that create legal contracts that are recognized by the courts. If they refuse to do this, one could reasonably argue that they can no longer have the privilege of acting as agents of the state.

A way to resolve the problem is to say that everyone, including all religious believers, should have to accept a contract called a “legal union.” People could still be married in their church, but that ceremony would not be sanctioned by the secular government unless a secular authority was there as a witness. In other words, without a secular representative that ceremony would not generate the rights and responsibilities of a secular union (e.g., determine a person’s estate beneficiaries and so on).

At issue is whether such “discrimination” under the rubric of the government is constitutional and whether religious believers should have the power to control the secular affairs of the state when they are acting in such a “discriminatory” way. This is, after all, a founding principle of the United States. (Of course, such religious believers who think homosexuality is a sin in the eyes of God rarely see their actions as “discrimination”; they’re just carrying out God’s will.)

In any case, this is the root of the idea that “prohibiting gay marriage is unconstitutional.” At issue is that it’s unconstitutional according to many state charters. With this in mind, it’s only a matter of time before such anti gay marriage amendments are overturned in some states…or so it seems to me. But I’m no legal scholar. Remember, I’m the knucklehead who just last year said that we’d never elect a man named “Hussein” as our president.

I’ll leave off with some words from Arnold Schwarzenegger in speaking about the passage of Proposition 8, the anti-gay marriage amendment in California: “It is unfortunate but it is not the end because I think this will go back into the courts. … It’s the same as in the 1948 case when blacks and whites were not allowed to marry. This falls into the same category.”

And while Aaaaarnold is probably correct in saying that this will go back to the courts, it will certainly go back to the voters and they will eventually pass a pro gay marriage resolution. Exit polls show that a majority of young voters of color actually voted against Prop 8 in California (i.e.,the youth actually supported gay marriage). So it’s just a matter or time before more waves of young people register to vote.

Watch Keith Obermann, the liberal commentator speak on this. I’m generally not prone to admiring such a one-sided perspective and for my tastes Obermann seems like he’s filled with a mix of hot air and self-righteousness, but there is something unique about the way he pushes this issue right into one’s face that makes me smirk. Perhaps it’s my own self-righteousness and arrogance. He misses a couple of critical points, to be sure, but on at least one point–that this is really about love and relationship–it’s thought-provoking. Of course, if you think that God frowns upon LGBT love, however it occurs, then don’t bother to click on the link. It will just upset you. Wait, I just watched it a second time and I think it’s really worth watching.

Watch the Video.

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There is much to say about the election of Barack Obama, and no doubt we will. For the moment, however, let me say that it’s ironic that the Americans who were instrumental in bringing our first president of color into office (black and Hispanic voters) ALSO played a major role in rolling back progress on the road to egalitarian same sex relationships and marriage. Exit polls show that approximately 70 percent of voters in these groups supported gay marriage bans.

This was almost entirely religiously inspired, of course, given the disproportionate numbers of Catholic and evangelical Christians in these two populations. “Thank you Jesus for delivering Barack Obama to the great white house built by slaves…and for protecting us from the sin of loving the wrong person.” Right brain open. Left brain close.

OK, so I don’t want to offend anyone who believes that homosexuality is a sin but please, read on.

I’m wondering when members of these two groups will comprehend what it has taken white Americans so long to understand — when we deny others the valued rights that our own group relishes we inevitably weaken our own grasp of these rights along with our ability of our government to exercise them when needed. It’s a rather sobering realization, to be sure, and one that anyone who does not have a reserved seat at table of the ruling classes would be wise to note.

What’s truly ironic about this, in my humble opinion, is that in another 20-30 years the children and grandchildren of the Obama youth may well look back to this election as another “shameful chapter” in this country’s history of unequal treatment of minority groups. “Oh yeah, sure they elected Obama,” I can almost hear some politicized college student say, “but they buried the rights of the gay ( or some new term) community. What good was it?” Electing a black man will be less noteworthy than disenfranchizing a gay person.

The difference will be that when this conversation occurs the fingers will be pointed in some unexpected directions given how anti-gay marriage amendments were supported by so many racial and ethnic minorities.

Most of the time I open my mouth I seem to be wrong–I was just reminded by a former student that last fall I stated that this country would never elect a man named “Hussein” as its leader, after all–but mark my words, the youth of the future are going to be somewhat more open-minded about race than current generations but they will surely also see homosexuality very differently. They are, I am convinced, going to be much more open about LGBT issues than voters today. I guess every generation will have to wage its battle with bigotry and fear…and grow stronger from it.

Rock on to them. Personally, I must say that I hope they make more progress on this issue than the current generations are making.

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