I Guess It Pays to Learn a Bit About Other People

posted by Sam Richards

US Airways Express Flight 3079, bound for Kentucky, landed in Philadelphia after an attendant reported a passenger who was praying and wearing tefillin.

US Airways Express Flight 3079, bound for Kentucky, landed in Philadelphia after an attendant reported a passenger who was praying and wearing tefillin.

Strange how there is so much going on in the world that is boringly normal for one group and totally off-the-hook bizzare for another. While I am undoubtedly in the group of people in the U.S. that could be labelled “more aware” of others and their cultures, I would be quick to admit that there are things going on around me, cultural practices if you will, that I don’t understand and cannot make sense of.

So here is this quirky story about a young Jewish man who made the “mistake” of praying and wearing tefillin while flying on an airplane. Most of you don’t know what “teffilin” is–and why would you if you’re not Jewish?  Hmm… Actually, why would you if you’re not Jewish and familiar with a wide range of Jewish religious practices?

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What’s interesting about this misadventure in flying and cultural interpretation is how the Jewish families (and other Jews who were interviewed) reacted to it–they were very nonchalant and understanding.  “Are you kidding,” you can almost hear them say.  “Have you seen someone praying with tefillin?”  It’s a very rational response to what could otherwise be seen as a mistake made by a rather provincial and unworldly airline employee.

Read the article from the New York Times: “A Flight Is Diverted By a Prayer Seen As Ominous”

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446 Responses to I Guess It Pays to Learn a Bit About Other People

  1. nnm5029 says:

    I think the passengers and crew members reacted in a manner that most would. This may mean that we are not in tune with other cultures and religions, but we should this as a lesson of how we need to look for a better understanding of others. I cannot say I would have been comfortable with what the young man was doing. I have never encountered someone who wears tefillin when praying. I don’t blame the employee for taking the actions that he or she did. They are responsible for the safety of hundreds of passengers. If the attendant had ignored the actions of the young man and he was actually doing something dangerous then more blame and accusation would fall on the attendant.

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  2. arw5141 says:

    On one hand I completely see why someone freaked out about this. On the other hand, there shouldn’t have to be freaking out. I am disturbed by the slightly toned down version of “shoot first ask questions later”. Did they bother questioning this kid before cuffing him? Probably not. Did anyone on the plane stand up in his defense? Probably not, and because they had no idea what he was doing. Yes he could have been doing something dangerous that would harm all the passengers on the plane if the authorities hadn’t stepped in and acted quickly. That doesn’t really excuse them from just slapping some cuffs on two kids. If we keeping thinking that it’s the method to take, nothing is going to get better.

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  3. aps5121 says:

    To start off, this was a very interesting article. I believe there are two different ways to interpret this. However, either way each side displays a degree of ethnocentrism. On one side, the boy was seventeen and traveling with his sister, not a mob of terrorist-like people. It is almost embarrassing that they landed the plane just because they "thought" he was suspicious. Who knew that if one was praying it would be considered suspicious? Also, the boy was Jewish. Not some foreign religion that is not common the United States. The pilots and flight attendants should take more of an initiative to know some customs and norms of the main religions in our country due to the whole September 11th attack. They could have avoided this whole problem or even just questioned the boy if they had some type of knowledge. Additionally, I do not see how one goes from being not that concerned to landing a plane over this issue. When I say this I am referring to the time when the boy claimed he wasn’t stopped throughout the bag and security checks. He was wearing the same material around his body which is what the pilot and flight attendants claimed to have made them curious. If he appeared so dangerous, why wasn’t he stopped earlier? Maybe the US does not want to put any blame on them. Rather, it is easier to blame the male for dressing obscurely in the airport and plane. Even though they tried to do this, it still negatively reflects back on our country demonstrating racism and confusion to indifference. It shows the insensitivity the US has to religions that are practiced here in our own country.
    But then there is still the argument that this is part of the procedures America takes when flying. It seems as though many people are afraid to fly anywhere because of the September 11th attack and the other plane crashes. So in a way, I guess they are trying to tighten security. If they didn’t do this, I am sure there would be many people who would say that the airlines were not doing their job and not protecting our country. No, I do not think they should have gone to the measure of ending the flight. I think they could have avoided this whole situation if the US airlines were not ignorant of others’ religions, as I stated earlier. I am not saying they should study every religion in the world but perhaps the main ones that are practiced in this country. Both sides of this story require some adjustment, whether it is them learning the religions to avoid situations like this and/or the United States’ airline travelers not demanding the level of security they do.

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  4. psunutcase says:

    The first thing I thought of when i saw this is "what does this kid look like?" Personally when I think of emergency landings such as this, I normally picture some middle aged person of Middle Eastern decent sporting a long dark beard. When you find out that it is just a Jewish teenager practicing his religion, you realize that all over the world, there are many people who are not quite understood, especially when it comes to Americans understanding foreign cultures. I personally didn't know what telfillin and that sort of comes as a surprise to myself because I know quite a few Jewish people despite not be Jewish myself. It just comes to show not to judge a book by its cover.

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  5. kme5086 says:

    I feel there are two ways to look at this scenario. On one hand I would be scared if someone pulled out straps and wrapped them around his fingers and arms. I would think it was a suicide bomber praying in the last minutes of his life. I am not like this because I am racist but just because I was not knowledgeable of other cultures such as these Jewish traditions. I would also be scared because of the events of September 11th. I know it was nine years but it was a tragedy that is still burned into the memory of most Americans. If I was on that plane I would rather take the precautions than have another attack. It probably would not have been a problem if he would have told the people on the plane what he was doing before he started. Or, if he just waited until he got in a more private place. This situation goes both ways. This Jewish boy could have been more sensitive to the fears and thoughts of Americans who have seen such tragedy before. But also, Americans should be more sensitive to other cultures and traditions. It’s kind of sad that some people cannot even practice their religion in front of others without casting a fear in them. It is not our fault though. If something bad, such as an attack on another country, happened that country would be just as sensitive as we are. Our fears are a side effect of our past and are inevitable. On the other hand, if I was in his position, I would feel persecuted. Performing something as sacred as a prayer to him, and being interrupted because people aren’t knowledgeable is disrespectful. In a day and age where America has become a melting pot, I would expect more people to know more about other cultures and religions. Most people feel like they are intruders but it is people like him that make the United States so diverse. We are to be a country that is free to all. Free to study what you like, live where you want, speak the way you want, eat what you want, and believe what you want. We should not be able to interfere with someone’s life as those pilots and attendants have. I understand they were doing it for the safety of others as well but couldn’t this problem be resolved if we all were more educated about the people we live “with.” I feel awful that two young Jewish kids at that age had to experience the United States in such a horrible way. I feel we should all learn something new about every culture/religion whenever we can

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  6. sgd5036 says:

    As a young Jewish man, this story did not offend me at all. To tell you the truth, it actually pleased me. As a New Yorker, it comforted me with the fact that the airport that I regularly fly out of and into has flight crews that can successfully follow protocol and ensure the safety of the passengers. Since September 11th, many people have a great fear of flying. Even though the flight attendant was way off in her initial reaction, if that had been something dangerous, a potential crisis could have been avoided. As someone of the Jewish faith, I am not surprised to read that the flight attendant became confused. It was a logical reaction given the situation and most people would have responded in the same way as she. The United States claims to be a diverse and aware nation but in reality, most of society is sheltered and inexperienced. For many people, the first Jewish person they meet is in college and obviously they wouldn’t be too familiar with its practices. Now this does not make someone a bad person or even unknowledgeable about the world around them. Even some Jews have never heard of, or even seen tefillin, so the sight of it in use, especially on an airplane, could be unnerving. Though I am obviously familiar with tefillin and other Jewish practices, I cannot say that I am extensively familiar with practices of other cultures and faiths. For example, if a Buddhist began an extensive prayer on an airplane, it would seem out of the ordinary and would cause quite a bit of confusion. What was extremely impressive to me was the reaction of they boy and his younger sister. While most of the passengers aboard the plane were freaking out, the boy stayed composed, even with a gun briefly pointed at him. The children’s grandmother could have made a huge fuss over the situation, going to the newspapers and probably making a huge headline out of it. Instead, she recognized that it was a simple mistake and an error on the side of caution. The reaction of the boy’s rabbi also pleased me. He admitted that this ritual might seem strange to the unfamiliar, since indeed it did. To Monday morning quarterback the situation, the boy could have warned the rest of the passengers that he was performing a religious ritual that might scare them, but that’s just in retrospect. Personally, this proves to me that the world is not full of selfish attention getters. Rather, people are good at heart and know what the right thing to do is, most of the time. Experiencing different cultures will always generate a variety of different reactions.

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  7. slimshady62 says:

    Although this article was an interesting read, I really didn’t see it as THAT big of a deal. The Jewish guy (and any Jews on the plane) could definitely make a case for the attendant being prejudiced or way too naïve but at the same time she was just being precautious, and I think the fact that it happened to be tefillin makes it seem like Anti-Semitism at work. However, I doubt the flight attendant really feels that way. Overall, the thing to see is that some people are not as educated in such religious practices and therefore, whether fair or not, come across as pretty ignorant. If only they had all taken Soc 119.

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  8. accendere23 says:

    What I like most about this story is that the boy, his grandmother and the Rabbi all demonstrated such great cooperation and tolerance with the spotlight and media attention that they did not need. Our world has become so full of unnecessary lawsuits and wannabe television stars that I thought it was really refreshing to see their relaxed attitudes in the midst of a potentially volatile situation. Any of those individuals could have easily acted out in rage or tried to protest the injustice done to the boy and his sister when they were interrogated like criminals. Some people might even take offense to police officers handcuffing a 17year old boy and his 13 year old sister for praying. I think it reflects extremely well on the leaders and followers of the religion when they can respond to this sort of misunderstanding with civility and patience.
    I feel like the general population’s perception of the validity of any religion is in a slow decline, and groups that focus on convincing people to believe end up failing at their task and, instead, succeed in pushing their prospects even farther away. Take for example, the Willard/HUB preachers. Their incessant, sanctimonious shouting encourages college-aged non-believers to continue on their own path of beliefs and gives them a negative perspective on that particular religion. It is especially important for those religious sects whose ideals or practices are not well-recognized to make sure their profiles are kept clean.
    Towards the end of last semester I was stopped on my way to class by a conservatively dressed woman who was a member of The Church of Latter Day Saints. Although none of my close friends are associated with this sect, I know enough people who consider themselves Mormon for me to be able to have a comparison between their behaviors when it comes to religion. I saw the woman spot me from a half a block away as I rushed down the street to try to make it to class on time. Even though there were plenty of other people she could have stopped, she picked me. From the instant she approached me and by the abnormal questions she was asking me I could tell that she chose me because of the color of my skin. To get to the point, I was so disgusted with her decision to single me out for whatever reason that I can’t help but get slightly upset every time I’m reminded of proud Mormons.
    Even though I think of myself as very accepting and not so judgmental, I cannot help but think that many religious leaders, particularly those of Christian faith, bring negative attention to their church when they intend to bring more followers. That is why I am very impressed that the players on the victim’s side of this story were able to keep their cool when they were being misunderstood.

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  9. kap5271 says:

    This incident exemplifies a dilemma in today’s society. Should we lean towards tolerance or security? On one hand we live in America, the place where all cultures, religions, beliefs, and ideas are accepted. Although this may not be the reality, this widespread social tolerance is something Americans typically strive towards. We aspire to be knowledgeable and accepting of all. At the same time, there are thousands of cultural and religious practices out there in the world. It would be very difficult if not impossible to be knowledgeable about each and every one. Therefore, we remain ignorant about others to some extent. We fear the unknown. That is where safety comes into play. It is very difficult to be accepting of all cultures and practices when some of those practices are very dangerous to us. Most likely someone who lost a family member in 911 would not be very open to seemingly strange behavior on an airplane. So how do we do solve this conundrum so that we can be tolerant and safe? There is no one answer. However, an important lesson to take away would be the importance of becoming more educated and cultured.

    Coming to Penn State enhanced my thinking academically as well as socially and culturally. I come from a predominantly white upper-middle class suburban town. I can count the number of black kids in my grade on my hand. I would certainly not consider myself a racist person; I have many ethnic friends who I love to death. However, there are a few slightly racist ideas my community socialized me believe over the years. It is hard to think differently when people have been saying and embedding those ideas into your mind for your entire life. Coming to Penn State has shed me of the close-minded thoughts. Here at Penn State I have met people from all walks of life. I now have friends from Pakistan, Nigeria, South Africa, Australia, Venezuela, China, London, New Zealand, and Korea. Each of them has given me a preview into their culture and beliefs. Being surrounded by people from all across the world has helped me to grow and think differently. As cliché as it sounds, the college experience has helped me to find myself. Nonetheless, the more I learn, the more I realize how much more I have to discover. There is so much knowledge out there. It’s just a matter of whether we are willing to acquire it or not. In my opinion, the best way to eliminate that ignorance is to experience the culture hands on. I would love to travel to as many places as possible to learn more about different cultures. So far I have been lucky enough to travel to Mexico, Honduras, and London, and some of my most cherished life experiences have been while in those places. After graduation, I hope to travel the world, join the Peace Corps, and teach abroad somewhere. In fifty years from now I hope I can call myself a cultured individual.

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  10. leah528 says:

    Although I believe it is a shame that this event happened, for I imagine it was quite a horrific experience for the boy to be put in handcuffs if even for a short while, I can understand where the flight crew was coming from. I also believe it is a shame that Americans are not fully aware of rituals for any religion other than the one they practice themselves. Maybe if we were more aware, this misunderstanding would not have taken place. As I said before, however, I can see where the flight crew was coming from. If the straps indeed looked like wires or something of the like, it is easy to understand why the flight attendant was alarmed. I only wish that Americans would learn more about practices that are foreign to them, and to just broaden their horizons.

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  11. aam5215 says:

    I found this article to be extremely interesting. I am Catholic, and so is the majority of my family, so I am not familiar with the Jewish fate. I have never heard of teffilin before, and I am not aware of the Morning Prayer rituals that the Jewish do. I tried to compare it to the Rosary Beads of the Catholic fate and how many people hold them in their hands while they pray. This article was able to teach me something about the Jewish religion, and helped me to learn about their culture and how they practice it.
    By the looks of the picture, the seventeen-year-old boy does not look dangerous. The teffilin is in plain sight and he does not appear to be trying to hide it from anyone. If someone really suspected that he had wires to a bomb or something of the sort hooked up to him, why would he not try and hide it. I do not think he would have made it so plainly visible on his outfit if his intentions were to harm others. In addition to this, he was also with his younger sister on the plane. It is one thing for people to allow themselves to die in an attempt to kill others, and it is another to put a family member at risk. This is another concept the pilot should have taken into consideration. Why would he try to blow up a plane his younger sister was aboard? Along with this, the boy was able to make it past all of the airport security without being questioned or told to remove the teffilin. The passenger who took this as a threat didn’t wonder how they were the only one to suspect him of causing harm, and the trained airport security didn’t?
    If I was this boy, I think I would be very offended by outcome of this fiasco. He was doing absolutely nothing wrong and was just trying to practice his religious beliefs. I would be furious if someone accused me of doing wrong for holding Rosary Beads on a plane. This had to be such an embarrassing experience for this boy for all of the commotion that came of him trying to practice his religion. He had to be worried as well as embarrassed that he caused an entire plane to land. Along with this, his younger sister had to be scared seeing the pilot and security talking to her brother. What I find to be the most ironic about this situation is that the boy was simply trying to practice his religion, and got accused of trying to blow up the plane. He was trying to pray and was accused of trying to kill. I find this to be a little disturbing that our society always suspects the worst in people.

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  12. I saw this article on Yahoo news the day that this all happened. The headline caught my attention right away and it was interesting too read it. Let me just say that I am happy with the way everyone involved went about the situation and the way everything ended. Meaning, I am very glad that everything was OK in the end and there was no real terror threat and no one got hurt. But I am mostly talking about the way people reacted to this.

    Some Jewish people who were questioned were completely fine and understanding; and even the boy and his grandma didn't seem to have freaked out too much and handled it all pretty well in my opinion. To be honest if someone were to ask me to guess the reactions of some Jewish people, I would probably have guessed that they would be offended or even angry, especially the boy and his grandmother. The police didn't seem to have treated him badly, but I think he had the right to be at least a little mad that he got handcuffed for what may have seemed like no reason at the moment. Yet he chose to be grown up about it and he chose to understand and accept. I am very impressed with the young man, I have to say. And even though he was the one directly involved, I am even more impressed with his grandmother who took it pretty lightly. Because when I imagine any grandmother finding out that something like this happened to her child, I just imagine the grandma flipping out. Especially since grandmothers aren't usually exactly on the progressive side. Overall, I am just happy with the reaction and understanding of the Jewish public. And I say that I'm happy because to be honest, were they to start to complain or get offended about all this, I'd be pretty mad. Because as educated about others as we all should be, there will never come a day where every person is familiar with every little custom of each country of religion. You just cannot possibly expect all people to know about such a specific Jewish religious custom. I bet everyone including the boy himself and his grandma were just glad to know that their safety was taken care of. And now that there is such a large terror threat, you can't be mad at anyone for taking the extra precautions. I am glad that the pilots listened to the attendant and actually grounded the flight. Because once again, what if this was a real terrorist? They did the right thing. At the end of the day the motto is 'Better safe than sorry,' can anyone disagree with that?

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  13. kme5086 says:

    I feel there are two ways to look at this scenario. On one hand I would be scared if someone pulled out straps and wrapped them around his fingers and arms. I would think it was a suicide bomber praying in the last minutes of his life. I am not like this because I am racist but just because I was not knowledgeable of other cultures such as these Jewish traditions. I would also be scared because of the events of September 11th. I know it was nine years but it was a tragedy that is still burned into the memory of most Americans. If I was on that plane I would rather take the precautions than have another attack. It probably would not have been a problem if he would have told the people on the plane what he was doing before he started. Or, if he just waited until he got in a more private place. This situation goes both ways. This Jewish boy could have been more sensitive to the fears and thoughts of Americans who have seen such tragedy before. But also, Americans should be more sensitive to other cultures and traditions. It’s kind of sad that some people cannot even practice their religion in front of others without casting a fear in them. It is not our fault though. If something bad, such as an attack on another country, happened that country would be just as sensitive as we are. Our fears are a side effect of our past and are inevitable. On the other hand, if I was in his position, I would feel persecuted. Performing something as sacred as a prayer to him, and being interrupted because people aren’t knowledgeable is disrespectful. In a day and age where America has become a melting pot, I would expect more people to know more about other cultures and religions. Most people feel like they are intruders but it is people like him that make the United States so diverse. We are to be a country that is free to all. Free to study what you like, live where you want, speak the way you want, eat what you want, and believe what you want. We should not be able to interfere with someone’s life as those pilots and attendants have. I understand they were doing it for the safety of others as well but couldn’t this problem be resolved if we all were more educated about the people we live “with.” I feel awful that two young Jewish kids at that age had to experience the United States in such a horrible way. I feel we should all learn from this and put ourselves in their shoes and learn something new about every culture/religion whenever we can. It would make us all better people.

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  14. ChiefMaybe says:

    Well, I have to admit I have never heard of this Jewish ritualistic prayer. I would like to say though, if I witnessed this occurring on a flight that I was on, I would be very weary and would be watching his every action. If it seemed appropriate at the time I would most likely subdue him. You may think that’s irrational and wrong, but I like to think of a phrase we learned in the military, “When in doubt, whip it out” (of course this was just for saluting officers) but its primary meaning is “better safe than sorry”. I think that this boy served a purpose to enlighten individuals of this ritual. Not every individual is aware of different practices and this is just an easy way to spread the knowledge. So, like I said, better safe than sorry. In conclusion, at least there was a peaceful outcome and this Jewish religious ritual got some recognition.

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  15. krf1234 says:

    When I first read this article, it made me angry. I thought this boy is just practicing his customs and people think he is a terrorist. After continuing to read the story it made me think. It made me realize that we have so much to learn about one another's cultures. I am Jewish, and there are many parts of Judaism that I still do not understand. If this is who I associate myself with, and I do not know all the customs and rituals, how is someone from a different culture supposed to know? I consider myself to be from a relatively diverse neighborhood. I lived in an area of people from all races, ethnicities, cultures, and religions. I grew up in an area where we may have not known a great deal about each other's backgrounds, but we knew enough to understand. I guess it was the naive part of me that thought most people grew up in similar areas where there was diversity. I will never forget the day I was sitting in my English 15 class and we broke up into small groups to discuss a chapter we read about the comparison of Jews and other groups of people. As we were discussing I said that I was Jewish and the people in the group gasped and said "you're Jewish"? It was if I were an alien from another planet. I was then met with questions such as "Why are Jews so cheap"? and "Do you really have horns"? At first I laughed because I thought, they cannot be serious right now, but they were; they were dead serious. It is things such as the tefillin incident and my English class that make me realize how far we have to go. We get so involved with ourselves that we forget there are other people in the world who have this rich interesting culture. I think it is time we start to take advantage of it.

    On the other hand, I understand the flight attendant's response. After thinking back to that English 15 class I realize that not everyone will be so knowledgeable about everyone else's culture. Since September 11, there has been this fear distilled in us about flying and the constant threat of a possible terrorist attack. We are at a time in our history, where every little thing can be a threat so I understand the reasoning behind the flight attendant's decision. If I had been on that plane sitting next to that seventeen year old, and I had never seen tefillin before either, I think I would be scared too. We are at a point where we have to take every precaution to prevent a catastrophic event. While on the one hand this incident makes me a little upset, I understand the need to protect our country and us. This incident shows that we need to focus on learning more about other cultures, and not focus so much on ourselves.

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  16. debateordie says:

    If I was to be put in the same situation as one of the many attending the flight I probably would've acted in the same manner. I would've thought it was a terrorist attack because I am not used to people praying on planes, and I would be quite worried. But if I was in the victims shoes I would be really outraged. I would be thinking I didn't cause any harm to any other passengers and all I was doing was praying and using my free speech and expressing my beliefs. This is such a major culture shock. I don't want to say us as Americans are to arrogant and ignorant to understand there are other religions out there and different beliefs as our own but it seems that way at times. To many of Jewish descent this would be completely normal and wouldn't of been such a big deal, but to Americans its without a doubt very new and when seen the first thing to do is panic. Since September 11th and the many terrorists attack that are happening around the world and the attempts in our country like the recent flight from Amsterdam to Detroit where there was suspicious behavior and a small explosion occurred leaving everyone is complete panic. I believe it is right to report suspicious behavior but this Jewish man committed no crime other than looking different than the rest of the passengers. Everybody has stereotypes and many people who were to see this man on the plane would be a little more cautious then seeing a person wearing "American clothes". I think that is the major problem with the United States. We aren't open to anything new and we immediately judge by appearance. I'm half Jewish and I think the tefflin is two black cubes which are sprayed black and have small captions of the Torah inside. I'm not quite sure since but that would be my guess. Being half Jewish and I am not even sure what it is i am pretty positive that almost all Americans of a different faith wouldn't know as well. The average American would think that person was up to something and would get the majority of the attention from fellow passengers. Maybe if we took the time to understand other religions this wouldn't have been a problem. I know it seems a little far fetched to just understand where all the religions come from and not place a negative sign on someone just because we don't understand it. There has to be something we can do to help the cause of Americans and others who don't understand what Americans are thinking and how sensitive we are when it comes to something like this.

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  17. cmaverick says:

    This article is quite interesting. It’s easy to get angry over this matter but it’s also not too hard to sympathize with the issue. Like other native New Yorkers, I’m not surprised when things like this happen because unusual ritual prayers happen all the time within the New York metropolitan area. However, when it’s done on a plane, I can agree with the perspective from the flight attendant and say it looks very suspicious and shady from the naked eye. From reading the article, I admire how the whole situation was taken care of really well. The flight attendant’s curiosity and sudden panic seem normal, which led to appropriate actions from the cockpit crew in the air and police authorities on the ground. One can say that “that’s extreme,” but what can you do? We live in a post-9/11 world where anything and, possibly, everything can seem abnormal and fishy. And when you’re in New York, anything can happen these days. Anyway, the Jewish boy explained himself to the authorities, the police let him go, and he was on his way to Louisville with his family. I thought the grandmother of the boy took very appropriate actions towards the media as well by not exposing his grandson to news reporters.

    From reading this article, I feel that the whole situation was centered on the boy and his family’s belief system. Everything seemed to fall into place and actions were taken in a very peaceful and gracious manner. Does this situation say anything about the Jewish faith? It can in many ways; first off, everyone’s learned something new about orthodox Jews: prayer. It can be argued that the majority of Jewish people don’t practice their faith as intensively as the aforementioned boy, but we at least know the minority of those in faith that do in such a manner. Sometimes we have to learn from situations that make us uncomfortable and think hard, but that’s okay! That’s just the way life is; we’ll be given curveballs, but everything happens for a reason and at the end of the day, a lesson is revealed and we move on with life from that experience. Another thing from this article that can be taken is the Jewish faith’s calling to live for God. I’m not a Jew (rather, I’m a Christian), but from what I know about the Jewish faith, God is a God who unconditionally loves and calls his people to live peacefully amongst everyone else. I think this article portrayed a good example of what the Jewish faith, as well as other particular ones, should authentically look like. This was a situation that could’ve gone wrong from a misconception, but actually, for once, went right.

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  18. buddyrusty says:

    When reading this article I found myself somewhat embarrassed. I am a young Jewish woman and prior to reading this article I did not even know what a tefillin was. If I am unaware of this ritual, I can only imagine what non-Jewish people would think. Perhaps if I had been on the plane, the image of the boy praying with rope tied all around him may have made me feel uneasy. I think the real issue is ignorance. We, as Americans are scared of the unknown. We do not embrace our differences, but rather we shy away from them. It is frightening to think that our nation is in a such a mindset that our first reaction to something unfamiliar to assume that it is some sort of terrorist act.
    When I go to the airport I notice the types of people airport officials often take aside to question and search. Often times my family and I joke with my older brother about how he will be questioned because of his dark beard and scruffy look. In fact he has been taken aside and searched many times most likely because of his appearance. Many would argue that this system is racist. Living in a post 9/11 nation we have become frightened of people who are or look like they are of Middle Eastern descent. Due to a small group of terrorists, some Americans have become prejudiced to an entire nation of people. We look at Middle Easterners as threatening, scary, and suspicious. Is it fair to change our perception of an entire group of people based upon a few radicals? Many however, would argue that they would rather be deemed a racist than allow a terrorist onto an airplane. Everything in life comes at a cost. I can imagine that it must be challenging for Middle Easterners to live in post 9/11 America.
    It is interesting to note how relaxed and easy going this young man appeared in the article in regard to his ordeal. Not only did the plane do an emergency landing, but the man and his younger sister were handcuffed and held at gun point. If this incident happened to one of my friends, there likely would have been screaming, cursing, and perhaps the threat of a law suit. However, this young man handled the situation by explaining to the authorities that he was only trying to pray. A rabbi was later interviewed about this event and stated that he would suggest to the young man to pray on the plane, but perhaps next time without his tefillin. I think it is extremely unfortunate that this young man should have to alter his religious practices because of the ignorance of others.

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  19. jdh5097 says:

    I can relate to this story with a personal experience. Back in 2002, only a couple months after 9/11, my entire extended family was going on a trip overseas together. This obviously necessitated a long plane ride that involved flying for many hours over the ocean (a terrifying experience for a person that isn't completely comfortable with flying). While waiting in the terminal before takeoff, a few of my family members wanted to take pictures to chronicle the beginning of a trip that no one would forget. However, the employees of the airport forbid the taking of pictures within the airport. This alone led to a sense of uneasiness within the group. The very heavy presence of armed military officials with big guns didn't help the cause either. The icing on the cake was the group of people praying very animatedly right next to the window. To this day I do not know what religion they were, but it seemed foreign to me and that was that. Here I was, a relatively ignorant 13 year old, months after the terrorist attacks, and a foreign group of obviously religious (and, at the time, dangerous) are going nuts praying right next to the plane. At the time, Muslim was a feared religion and linked with the terrorist attacks. Looking back, it is completely ridiculous that I was afraid of these people that were simply praying towards the rising sun (I believe this is an Islam religious practice). But it is quite representative of the things that Americans go through when they are dealt with a situation that they are unfamiliar with. They react with fear and trepidation to anyone that isn't Christian, may be from the Middle East, or is doing something that is out of the ordinary. Recently I watched a video of an old white woman on a plane talking to herself and generally acting like a lunatic. Her actions were greeted with sideways glances and bemused looks, mostly because of how ridiculous she was acting. However, it would be interesting to see how people on the plane would have reacted if it had been a young Arabic man. It is the sad truth that they certainly would not have taken videos and laughed. I would be willing to bet that many would have asked the flight attendant to handle the situation, and perhaps it would have ended similarly to Flight 3079. My father makes an interesting point when we go to airports and are reminded of the current situation. He makes the claim that people that look Arab should be profiled and checked more cautiously than white people, and I agree with him. It isn't out of malice or stereotyping, it is just the truth. If you had to choose between two people and label one person to be anti-American and willing to do something destructive because of these feelings, you would be hard pressed to find a person that would say, "I think the white person hates America." Hate might be a strong word, but it is widely understood that America is on shaky ground abroad. Therefore, while some may call it racial stereotyping, I believe it is just being realistic about the situation. By checking someone more carefully, it isn't giving them a middle finger and accusing them of being a terrorist. It is simply a reality of the times and, I believe, a necessary step in national security.

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  20. rbjess says:

    This is just what happens in the skies now. I completely understand what the young man was doing but with events like 9/11 and the Christmas day attack the flight attendant was only doing their job. It’s not every day you see people wrap themselves up and go into prayer. The flight attendant got worried like most people would and got everyone into it. Yeah this story seems like a total mess and people not understanding cultures completely but the fact of the matter is pilots and flight attendants to get paid for understanding cultural diversities it’s about safety and in more ever in today’s world.

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  21. This situation, as it turned out, was in many ways and for many reasons unfortunate. This is a 17 years old kid we’re talking about. However, both perspectives are easily understandable. I think Lt. Frank Vanore was completely correct in saying that, “It was unfamiliarity that caused this (misunderstanding).” Yes, it is a daily morning ritual, which I fully acknowledge and respect, but on an airplane, an environment that has unfortunately become prone to terrorism (in many forms) and where “in-flight thinking (and judgment),” as the flight attendant stated, is clouded… to say the least, I can understand a passenger’s concern and declare it perfectly legitimate. Especially, post 9/11. So, it is not surprising that some ordinary actions or rituals may attract unnecessary attention from others.

    Honestly, I don’t feel like it is my place to pass judgment on him, but I feel as though it is partially the kid’s fault. Has he never flown to visit his grandmother before? Is he unaware of 9/11 and how it has affected flying? I mean, he had to have thought twice about praying while on the flight. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. I’m not saying the kid shouldn’t pray or that he should be ashamed of the ritual by any means, but I think he has to take some of these things into consideration. He had four hours after sunrise, there had to have been some time to pray before arriving at the airport or even boarding the plane. What about prayer rooms? (Though I doubt there are any at LGA). Either way, this entire incident could have been avoided.

    Further, as the article mention, it is unrealistic to make everyone aware of the common Jewish practice. With the exception of some, to the “naked” eye and average person, it may look like the person/passenger is strapping themselves with explosives, not that it is correct to assume so. In that situation, when an individual carries out such suggestive/controversial action(s), race and/or ethnicity (I feel) mean very little. What I’m trying to convey here is that the man could have been from anywhere and have had any color of skin – black, white brown, yellow, whatever and the reaction (from the flight attendant and other passengers)would have been the same. In other cases, I think it would have definitely mattered. i.e. Much of the suspicion prior to boarding, during security checks and at the flight gate, is directed at minorities and people who “look” physically similar to previous assumed terrorists.

    And as I’m sure many have acknowledged, handcuffing the kid and his sister is a little uncalled for.

    Overall though, the entire incident is definitely interesting and makes you think at least about how little we actually know.

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  22. emb5240 says:

    This article made me think about how little we know about traditions in our society. I am a white female from Virginia. I was born and raised Catholic and attended Catholic grade school. I have blonde hair blue eyes. And as someone once joked with me I wear UGGS a black north face and carry a Vera Bradley bag like every other girl at Penn State. I grew up in Northern Virginia (outside DC) and my high school was fairly diverse. While I had been in class with people of different faiths and ethnicities all my friends were just like me. Last year I experienced major culture shock when my roommate was Jewish and from long island New York. She fit every long island stereotype perfectly. I quickly learned about some religious practices and regional practices that were almost barbaric to me. Yon Kippur was one of crazies to me, I did not understand not eating or drinking for an entire day.However the fact that I wore jeans to church every week (sometimes even sweat pants) was shocking to her.

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  23. cjg16 says:

    I thought this article was interesting. I guess I had never understood how much more cautious people have become on the plane itself. Sure we go through tons of security now and almost everyone gets wanded to make sure there's no metal on their person, but I haven't heard of a plane being landed for a 'suspicous' looking person who wasn't actually doing something disruptive or dangerous. It's kind of crazy how much has changed over my lifetime. I remember when I was younger and traveling by plane, we'd walk through the metal detector with our coats, shoes, belts, whatever on and could get pocket knives, knitting needles, and other pointy objects on the plane. Now a days when I go through airport security I feel like I'm stripping off a whole layer of myself just to make it onto the flight. Don't get me wrong, I like the feeling of security you get from going through the whole process, but as my father points out each time we travel, there's always something weird in either his bag or my mom's that slips by the radar and is only realized after the fact.

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  24. cjg16 says:

    And this might sound strange but I've noticed when I get pulled to the side to get my bag checked or extra security wanding the most: I'm tan. I'm half Chinese and half Italian, so people are always asking me, "What are you?" Kind of a strange question but I deal, but during the summer I get really tan, like I look like a different person I can get so dark. I'm not really sure what to make of it, but my sister have been noticing more recently that this happens to us more than we're comfortable with. Plane travel isn't fun for anyone and being singled out because people can't figure out where I'm from is humbling and eye opening. In a way I think I experience something that perhaps a lot of other white people don't.

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  25. emb5240 says:

    ( this is post #2 it is all one but the computer is telling me it is too long) Camp was a regional practice that I did not understand. I only knew one girl who went to camp for the summer and while I had been to sports camp for a week I did not understand why parents sent their kids to camp at such a young age for the entire summer. She said that everyone in her town sent their kids to camp and it was weird if you did not go. The differences continued down to our family views and our dress. I did not get way American apparel was so stylish and she thought I looked ridiculous in my colorful preppy wardrobe. I was shocked at the way she back talked to her parents and she was shocked at how obedient I was. I think it was a surprise to both of us that we became very good friends despite our differences.

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  26. emb5240 says:

    ( post #3) However she had to leave school for health problems I got a new roommate 2nd semester. I was in for a different culture shock. My new roommate is black and loves ammine she is quiet and sweet. She rarely leaves the room and is completely content sitting and doing nothing and watching TV or drawing. She does not wear makeup, or seam to put a lot of thought into her appearance or dress. My friends were shocked that I have liked her so far and they joked that she was the polar opposite of me. I joked with them that she has to think I am nuts. On my side of the room everything is pink I have it completely decorated. I am extremely involved on campus and I really never stop going. I am very motivated and enough is rarely enough. I come back late at night and I leave for class early in the morning. My Closet is stuffed and will barely shut. Last night as I left dressed ridiculously for a hillbilly themed social I was convinced that I must appear insane to her.

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  27. emb5240 says:

    ( post #4) I do not understand fasting 4 a whole day, going to camp, spending the entire day in your room, or the attraction to ammine. However not sitting or sleeping for 46 hours, worrying about weight, campting out for football tickets, sports, internships, basketball games, community service clubs, j crew and so much more is strange to others. I think we should all make more of an effort to understand others cultures and the lifestyle choices them make.

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  28. cjg16 says:

    My mother always tells me stories about when she was a little girl growing up in the 60's and that during the summer her grandma wouldn't let her play in the front yard b/c her skin color got so dark from tanning; but I figured that that might not be the case anymore. I think the college world has clouded my perceptions of reality and what it's like to live day to day in the US as someone with a different religion, different skin color, and even different native language. It makes me think of that experiment I remember reading about for a class I think my freshmen year. About the guy who was white and then slowly injected his skin with pigments to change the color of his skin over a certain period of time. His notes about how people started treating him worse was so interesting and I think it would be very eye opening if someone replicated that experiment nowadays. A lot of people might be surprised by how much either has or has not changed.

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  29. As i read the article i believe it was human nature for the flight attendant and crew to overreact a Jewish boy with black straps connected to a black box. America in the past has faced the issue of terrorism after the incident of 9/11 all of America security over airport has been top notched. America's political,crime, and his security systems has been on the watch for anything suspicious. Like earlier comments said before, anything that looks strange or represent something that can threat lives of american citizens would signal American authority to take action to prevent any harm. I think the boy has the right to show his beliefs and practice them but he must be aware to where he should practice them.

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  30. JessicaPSU says:

    This is actually kind of funny to me when I think about it. I understand that people in the airline industry can not be aware of every religious practice out there, but as a Jewish person (and a person that understands what praying is), this seems like a slight over reaction. I guess the flight attendant did the right thing by taking precautions, but seriously… he was PRAYING! The grandmother was right; people in America sure are suspicious. So really, I am not at all surprised by their reaction because people do look a little funny when they are wrapped up the teffilin. However that flight attendant must have felt pretty dumb when she found out what he was actually doing. I feel sorry for the young man. That must have been embarrassing and scary for him. I wonder if he took any legal action against the airline for placing him in handcuffs and pointing guns at him? If it was me, I probably would want some kind of compensation because not only would I be terrified and embarrassed, I would be offended that someone thought I was a terrorist. Especially if I was performing such a sacred act, I would feel pretty upset.

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  31. Lyons2010 says:

    This article brings up many issues, the most important of which, in my mind, concerns how the passengers on the plane acted and how the Jewish community reacted as a result. I have many a time seen people pray using tefillin and I can attest it is not the most normal looking practice to observe. It is rather obscure to see an individual wrapping “unknown material” around his arms which have little boxes on the end, and since the terrorist attacks on 9/11, anything that is seen as out of the ordinary on an airplane needs to be handled with caution and immediacy. I do not blame the flight crew for acting in a precautionary manner because in the hypothetical case that the praying boy was a terrorist, a lack of action would result in the death of hundreds, possibly thousands.

    Not only did the flight crew act appropriately, but I was impressed with the way the Jewish community handled the situation as well. Looking at it from an objective eye, the flight team had a right to be suspicious and wasn’t acting out of anti-Semitism, but out of a genuine concern for safety and life. One gets the sense from the article that had it not been a Jewish kid, but a Muslim kid performing an uncommon religious practice, the flight crew would have handled the situation the same way. The Jewish community could have handled this by overreacting and making a big deal out of all of it, but instead they see the rationale behind everyone’s behavior and agree that everyone acted in an understandable manner.

    For the reasons mentioned above this article makes me hopeful for two things. First off and most realistically, I am hopeful that potential terrorists will see the recent actions taken by this flight crew and be further deterred to not use airplanes as vehicles for terrorism. This is not the first instance where individuals on a flight band together to prevent what could be a catastrophic event, and seeing this terrorist may be more reluctant to try anything where the unpredictability of the individuals on a flight might impede their goals. Secondly, I am hopeful that other religious communities will follow the Jewish community’s lead in reacting rationally to a religious issue. As other people have commented, had this been a Muslim student in the same situation it is unlikely that the Muslim community would have reacted with such objectivity and acceptance. I am not saying it is impossible that they could react in this fashion, just unlikely due to prior incidents.

    Another point I feel needs to be addressed is the unintelligent actions performed by this Jewish kid. I have nothing against praying on a plane or being religious, but there is an appropriate way to do so and an inappropriate way to do so. If this student felt so compelled to pray he should have requested the attention of the flight staff and informed them of his intentions so as not to surprise or spook anyone. While it is a bit inconvenient to do this, he should have known that by not he risked frightening other passengers and causing a disturbance. Since no one was hurt and no one was offended, this article is probably not going to be globally significant news; however, I am hopeful that the actions taken by the flight crew and the response given by the Jewish community lay the foundation for future actions and reactions taken if similar instances reoccur.

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  32. no_ceilings says:

    This article was very interesting. I’m Jewish and although I don’t practice the religion I know what a tefillin is. However, I can see why the flight attendant may be suspicious. I mean, you see some kid wrapping what looks like cables around his hand… and you’re on an airplane… what would you think? That’s why I can see where Jewish people are coming from when they reacted rationally to this occurrence. You have to be understanding in situations such as this because most people have no idea what the Jewish religion is even about. It’s hard because there are two different sides to this situation.
    On one hand, I think that she could have taken a few extra measures before going to the cockpit and alerting the crew. It must be so humiliating for that poor kid. She could have asked him a few questions about his prayer ritual. As we all know when you ASSUME you make and ASS out of U and ME and that’s exactly what this flight attendant did. She humiliated herself and the boy. She even humiliated his sister who had to be handcuffed as well. What this should be seen as is a wake up call. WAKE UP PEOPLE! There are more religions out there than just the one that you practice. What gives that flight attendant the right to judge if he was really praying or not? She didn’t know what religion he practiced or why he was doing what he was doing; yet she still didn’t bother to ask.
    On the other hand, maybe some people can sleep better at night knowing that airlines are making sure that all crew members are being very careful and observant and trying to keep us as safe as possible. I mean it’s true- this incident shows that even flight attendants are keeping all eyes open at all times. And in today’s world, this is a very important thing. Some people won’t even fly due to fear of a terrorist attack. It’s just so horrible and unfortunate that this is the world that we have to live in. That someone is trying to pray and it’s seen as a potential terrorist threat. That not one person on that whole plane new what a tefillin was. That those kids were actually handcuffed!!! This is the world that we live in! For those of you that know this phrase- SMH (shaking my head). That’s what I’m doing!!
    So there can be a few lessons learned from this. Eyes need to be opened. Religion classes need to be taken (especially when you’re a flight attendant as we can see). And also, as I said before… let’s try not to ASSUME anymore.

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  33. igg5003 says:

    There are many intricate subgroups to every religion. There are those who do not fully observe heir religion or follow of the beliefs and then there are those who very strongly believe in their religion. In the middle, we can find people who are a mix of both forms. In the religion of Judaism, the Orthodox group is very observant of the Jewish rituals. This includes not using electricity on Sabbath, keeping kosher, and praying everyday (For men, it's praying everyday with tefillin). There are extremists in all religions and most of us aren't aware of their practices and rituals. Most people are only aware of their own culture. For example, what they do or eat every day. However, all of us are different. When you find someone doing something that isn't familiar to you, you may think it's weird or out of the norm. I agree with our professor, there is a lot going on in the world that can be so normal for one group and extremely bizarre for another. There are many cultural practices around us that we do not understand and cannot make sense of. It is easy for us to judge something we are unfamiliar with; it's human nature. We are quick to judge people. Unfortunately, judging or seeing something we are unfamiliar with often leads to fear. On that plane, many people feared this passenger who was simply praying with an object that was unidentifiable to most. It's human nature to jump to conclusions. In this case, the flight attendant went to the pilot because she was unfamiliar with the Jewish rituals. In less than thirty minutes, the plane was on the ground and this Jewish passenger was coined the "disruptive" and "suspicious" passenger. I agree that it was unfamiliarity that has caused fear in the flight attendant and pilots. However, in this day and age, did the flight attendant react in a correct manner? It is terrible that the acts of "911" have created such an anxiety when it comes to flying. We are all a lot more aware of our surroundings when we are about to get onto a plane. Unfortunately, it is true; in-flight thinking is colored by the knowledge that passengers have hidden bombs. The acts of "911" gave the judgmental human race more reasons t discriminate. We now have "random" security searches when we go through airport security. But how random are they? My white friend, who almost looks Muslim because of her dark skin and hair, is always "randomly" screened when we go through security. In this day and age, we fear the unknown. This article just goes to prove what “911” has done to America as a whole; it has permanently made us discriminate.

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  34. fawniefawn says:

    We can sit around all day and talk about how upsetting it is that we have to be suspicious of everyone, especially on airplanes, but the fact is that history repeats itself, and we’ve seen threats and attacks on airplanes too many times not to be concerned. I think the flight attendant did the right thing.
    The fact that she did take action makes me feel a little safer when thinking about flying. I feel that all too often suspicious matters are overlooked. I realize that we can’t live our lives being paranoid 24/7, but I think it’s important to take action when a situation is uncomfortable or doesn’t seem right. The flight attendant did just that, and I think others should give her credit for her courage to address the matter.
    On the other hand, I do feel bad that the boy was put in handcuffs. That seems slightly over-the-top, but then again it was probably just a basic precaution taken when the police first arrived. Honestly, I’m a little confused about the boy. He’s seventeen, so he has to be aware of what goes on in our country and people’s fears of attacks on airplanes. Yet he still decided that it was a good idea to do this Jewish prayer ritual. The last thing anyone on an airplane wants to do is attract attention to him/herself. No one wants to startle the rest of the people on board, and I would think a seventeen-year old would be aware of this. Granted this is a religious ritual of his, but I just think it’s important to think of how things appear to others, especially on an airplane. When I was younger, I decided painting my nails while flying would be a good way to pass the time. However, after a few minutes the area around me because to smell like nail polish, and I quickly put it away not wanting to scare anyone with the chemical smell because I knew even at a young age that it was better to blend in and that on an airplane any attention paid to someone usually meant suspicion of that person for a wrongdoing. However, I’m sure the boy learned his lesson and won’t be attracting attention to himself when flying anytime soon.
    Overall, this situation isn’t a big deal. The boy was simply praying and didn’t mean to startle anyone. Although the flight attendant mistakenly saw the boy as a threat, she did the right thing. No one is to blame; it was just a misunderstanding of cultural differences. Although there was no real threat, I think US Airways received good publicity from the flight attendant’s actions. People want to feel safe, and typically many people who are flying are uneasy now-a-days. However, this was a good example of security precautions being taken, and many people might think about it like this: if one US Airways flight attendant handled this situation bravely and cautiously, maybe all of them are trained to do this. More people might feel safer flying with US Airways than another airline.
    Overall, nothing bad really came out of this event, besides the boy being thrown into handcuffs. Luckily it doesn’t sound as if he, his family, or Rabbi Greenberg took offense to the precautions taken. No one was hurt, the flight attendant did the right thing, and US Airways received positive publicity. This doesn’t sound like a news-breaking story to me, but then again it’s nice to hear something positive in the headlines.

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  35. Amanda5116 says:

    This story was a little bit scary to me. When I first read Sam’s post I looked up what teffilin was. I wanted to know a little bit more about it and what it looked like, and I still have to say I agree with the choice to land the plane in Philadelphia. I live in Bergen County, New Jersey which is 15 miles outside of New York City. So I have always been very active in visiting the city a lot and feel like it is almost a second home because my boyfriend lives there. Although I was in eight grade when the attacks on the World Trade Center occurred it still feels so fresh. The teachers were not allowed to tell us what was happening. Kids after kids were being called down to the principles office being sent home from school and picked up from one of their parents. Living in a suburb of New York City, a majority of our parents work in the city making this event hit even more close to home. I remember my close friend’s father worked in the towers and as she was leaving to go home she leaked to us that two planes crashed into the Twin Towers. I really didn’t understand what she was saying until I went home to be with my family. My mom, dad, and two siblings were all sitting in my family room watching the news. We watched the planes crash into the buildings over and over and that image still resonates. I think the reason why the young Jewish boys praying caused the planes to land was because our country is still in a fearful mode. The bombers took our own planes and flew them into our own buildings. Just on Christmas there was a bomb attempt. Our country is at war. So I think we have a lot to be fearful of and have a right to be overly cautious. Since this young man is from White Plains, NJ, not too far from the city, I am sure he felt the impact the 9/11 attacks. I just think out of a respect to your country and your fellow passengers that you hold off on your praying until you land. I understand people pray for many reasons but I am sure the boy knows that this type of praying may come off a little weird and suspicious to people who are not Jewish. I think it was very insensitive and a bit selfish of him to put the passengers in the situation. Not even because he was strapping leather bands around his wrists and head similarly to a bomb, but because he was praying in a manner that most people are unfamiliar with in a pubic venue.

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  36. I do see how the flight attendant could mistake the tefillin for a bomb. And with a rather vague answer from the boy I feel that the flight attendant for the most part did nothing wrong. The only thing that could have been done is to ask for a little better explanation of what the boy was doing. This might have prevented the landing in Philadelphia but it is almost always better to error on the side of caution. With the things that have happened recently aboard airplanes who is to say what is actually going on and most of the terrorist attacks are supposedly done in the name of religion praying with what appeared to be a box with wires coming out is a legitimate cause for concern.

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  37. Barbie215 says:

    After reading this article I realized that I don’t know as much about the world as I thought I did. I was born and raised Roman Catholic but I went to a Byzantine Rite Catholic Ukrainian all-girls high school. Byzantine just means the Eastern Orthodox Church so the practices are very different from what I was used to growing up. Needless to say, going from elementary school to high school was a huge shock when it came to religion. However, if I had not gone to this school I would not know what I know about religion now. My high school broadened my horizons and taught me that there are more beliefs in the world than I was ever aware of. The great thing about my high school was that every year we learned about a different religion, with senior year being dedicated to Judaism. As a result, I am very aware of the Tefillin and what it means to the Jewish community. Last year I actually had the opportunity of sitting in on a mass at a synagogue and I got to see a Tefillin first hand, which was pretty cool. By starting out this blog response with saying I don’t know as much about the world as I thought I did, I meant that it never hit me that people in the world didn’t know what that young man was doing on the plane. Sometimes I tend to forget that everyone gets their education differently and a lot of people never even had a single theology class in their lives. But after thinking about it, if I never took that class in high school I probably would have reacted the same exact way that the flight attendant did. It is a scary thing to see a complete stranger strap things to his arms and head when you’ve never seen anything like that before. I’m not sure how I feel about what happened in this article though. I almost feel as if it was a little bit of an overreaction. One thing that could have been done differently would be that the flight attendant could have gotten more people’s opinions before getting worked up too quickly. However, at the same time it definitely makes me feel safe knowing that the United States is really cracking down on airline safety. After all the bad things that have happened on airplanes in past decades, it is understandable why the airline would take the situation very seriously and divert the plane to Philadelphia. It’s just a shame that the poor kid only wanted to perform his daily prayer and it was taken as something very different by those around him. I guess it just goes to show you how unaware people in the world really are when it comes to understanding people who aren’t exactly like them.

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  38. kdance0081 says:

    While I can understand that passengers might be concerned by this behavior, it is important to remember that the flight attendant was the one who reported the behaviors, not overwhelming concern from passengers. Although there may be multiple guilty parties in this scenario, imagine yourself as the young boy escorted off a plane in handcuffs for a religious practice you partake in everyday. Additionally, I think the nature of the situation should have been considered before immediately landing the plane, the boy was with his family, not alone and detached while he was demonstrating unusual behaviors, the article makes is appear the boy was calm, and not appearing to be a dangerous person, simply a person who was preparing himself for a spiritual ritual. I cannot say what I would have done in the same situation as I was previously unfamiliar with his practice, but I hope I would have conversed with the boy for more than a few seconds before deeming him unsafe.

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  39. clj5090 says:

    What happened on the plane and at the airport is not surprising. At all. I think it was a really stupid idea for the boy to wear such things while traveling on a plane, especially in todays society. We are all paranoid when it come to traveling by plane. After 9/11, it seems like the minute people see something "out of the ordinary" they panic. I can't deny that I would have felt a bit uncomfortable and worried. It is not something that a majority of people have even heard about, including some jewish people. The thing that shocked me the most was how understanding both sides were. The grandma and the boys Rabbi were understanding of how odd this practice is to people. They even said it would have been a wiser choice to have waited until he got off the plane to put those things on. They are aware that this kind of practice is not very common in many areas around the United States. I would have thought that it would have brought about a huge controversy. I understand that it is protocal to do the things the security and police did, but I feel they took it a little too far by putting them in handcuffs even if it was for just a few minutes. In doing so, it made them seem like criminals and that they did something wrong. I have no problem with people following their religion very closely but to wear something that could come across as wires that may potentially be bombs on a plane, seems a little unreasonable and that boy was not thinking clearly about his actions. A lot of people in America are not very diverse in their understandings of other religions than our own. When we see things that are unfamiliar to us, we automatically think that it's not right or it makes us feel uncomfortable as I had said before. Religion is a topic that never has an answer as to what is right and wrong. It is hard to convince people to believe what you believe but the least we can do is understand other religions and realize that we have the right to believe, follow and practice whatever religion we choose. Im not really sure how I would have acted in this situation if I were those kids. I don't think I would have been so understanding and calm as the boy was. It almost seems that this is not the first time he has had a mishap when he uses the teffillin and prays. This situation just proves how skittish our country has become and maybe if we all have a better understanding of race and religion, we would not have these problems and we can truly become a "United" States.

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  40. mrr216 says:

    I found this article to be very interesting. Being Jewish myself I have seen teffilin and can totally understand why the flight attendant would think this ritual would be harmful. If I wasn't Jewish and saw this going on, I would definitely be scared and probably think the worst. That is what society has come to after the horrible attacks that occurred on September 11th. Many people are still afraid to fly and with the recent bomb that was found on Christmas, people are once again in shock with the security at airports. I am a reform Jew so nobody in my family practices with teffilin. I even remember learning about them in Hebrew school and not really understanding the importance of them to more conservative Jews. I remember when my teacher took them out and showed them to us we had no idea what they were and everyone was thinking "what is going on?" When anyone sees something they are unfamiliar with they immediately start to question what the object is.
    The young Jewish boy obviously did not realize other people would think his rituals were something else. However, I'm sure someone else on the plane was Jewish that could have helped dissolve the situation. I am also sure that there was at least one person with internet on their phone tosearch what the boy was talking about to see that what he was saying was actually the truth. Not only did these actions cause fear in people where fear did not need to be established, but it wasted time for all of the passengers on the plane. I know for sure that if I was in a rush and had to make a connecting flight, I would not be happy that I had to stop in Philadelphia and wait for the accusations to be cleared. This entire fiasco could have been handled a lot better and time efficient. This 17 year old boy had to even be handcuffed along with his sister. Personally, I would be freaking out if I was handcuffed because of my rituals even after I had told the truth about what I was doing.
    This is what our society has come to though. Like I previously stated, after 9/11 many people are now fearful of things they would never have been fearful of before. When an American sees something unfamiliar to them the immediate thought is to think that it's wrong or harmful. Americans need to be more educated about other religious customs so that things like this do not happen. People become so consumed in their own religions and disregard any other religion that is not their own. I do think religion ritual classes should be taught in schools so that children do not become fearful of other people's ways of doing things.

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  41. shamrock87 says:

    The airlines should not have been so quick to judge since 911 I could see why they would react the way they did. They should have asked the guy what he was doing first, rather then just assuming he was a terrorist or something. I think that we need to look into these issues first and just stop assuming everyone is a terrorist that doesnt look or dress normal. It is always other cultures that we often think to be terrorist just because they dress different or wear different types of clothing. We probably look and they probably feel the same way towards us when were in their country.

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  42. apr5024 says:

    I find it hard to believe that the flight attendants thought that this boy was trying to blow up the plane, although maybe I am a bit biased considering I am Jewish and from New York. Maybe I take for granted the religious tolerance and knowledge in New York since there are so many Jews that live there, as opposed to other parts of the country who are ignorant and do not care to learn about other religions and cultures. I just think it is really crazy how paranoid the world has gotten, and I don’t think its going to get any less paranoid any time soon. Especially since September 11, people are terrified of any unknown people or practices, and it is getting a little ridiculous, and rather sad.
    I have seen and heard a lot about this incident, and have read articles about it online. The article I found was on the short side, so I decided to read some of the hundreds of responses to the article and the responses on similar articles. Although there were some thought out responses, I was amazed to read such prejudices and unintelligent thoughts and ideas on the matter and how to deal with this unfortunate circumstance. One reply that really irked me was how one person asked the forum if there were any Israeli airlines that he could have taken so he could don Tefillin. Is it just me or is that the most feebleminded question you have ever heard? Is there an Israeli airline that flies from New York to Kentucky? Really? Does Air France fly from Chicago to Memphis? Does Air China fly from Boston to Los Angeles? Come on, don't be ridiculous.
    Having said all of this, I can understand that because many people do not know what Tefillin is, I can see some of the nervousness that seeing someone wrap leather straps on his arm and hand and place a box on his head can bring about. But what I do not understand is how the flight attendants had no religious sensitivity training. Especially flying out of New York, one has to expect to be around Jews. After all, New York has more Jews than the next six cities combined.
    I feel as though people need to learn more about other people so events like this do not happen again. I am also not taking myself out of this equation. I feel like I should learn more as well because one question that I have been thinking about lately is, what if this young Jew was really a member of a different, less accepted religion? Would I feel the same?

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  43. jayhawks03 says:

    I actually came across this article in the news headlines as soon as it happened, and admittedly had no idea as to the nature or practice of using a teffilin. After doing some mild research and looking at various images, the panic that occurred on the flight seems very reasonable. The device is not your average rosary or cross, and surely would not spark one to think of a religious item at first glance. In wake of the horrors that have faced airlines in the last decade and recently in the last month, there is no question that seeing such an item on an airplane would cause panic. While skimming though the responses to this article, it seems that the vast majority of people understand the reason for the alarmed passengers and can relate to the thought process that this item provoked. Although this is true, it seems many people also feel that this is due to a lack of ethnic knowledge on the part of the American people, and that we should be more aware of various ethnic, religious and cultural practices. This idea, on the other hand, is quite absurd.
    Just one month ago (almost to the day), the infamous “Christmas Day Bombing Attempt” ignited what had been a relatively dormant stretch of terroristic attempts on airlines. That said, there is no surprise that air travelers have been, to say the least, “extra observant.” Coming from someone who was flying out of the country on Christmas Day, I can say that I was extremely uneasy on my flight home after learning of the attempted bombing (which was also an international born flight). I admittedly “sized up” other passengers and questioned their habits and practices while waiting in security lines, but who wouldn’t? When you fly, you put your trust not only in the hands of the pilots, but also in the hands of your fellow flyers; as a passenger, I feel I have the right to be inquisitive about my fellow passengers and their actions. There is no doubt in my mind that, had I seen a young male with a teffilin on the plane, I would have been extremely suspicious and called attention to the flight attendant. A teffilin has the appearance of potentially being an explosive device, hands down. Do I think people are rude or ignorant for not knowing of the practice of a teffilin (or any other uncommon practice)? Absolutely not. I realize that the Jewish man involved in the incident went through some harsh treatment until the matter was cleared up, and given that he was innocent, it is unfortunate. However, one cannot hold the passengers responsible for not knowing of the practice of using a teffilin. Truth be told, what convoluted thought process would trigger this man to use this uncommon item on a plane filled with justifiably suspicious people? This is undoubtedly a sign of one passenger’s idiocy, not of other passengers’ ignorance.

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  44. Amsterdam says:

    Saying that Americans are 'skittish' as the boy's grandmother put it, is probably an understatement in this day and age. I feel like everyone is on edge about one thing or another, ESPECIALLY when it comes to airplanes. A combination of the government and media has made Americans have a heightened sense of fright, whether it is real or just perceived. So, the stewardess decided to err on the side of caution and notify the cabin. I can understand it to an extent. I am Jewish, and had heard of a teffilin, but I don't believe I would have known what the kid was doing either. I don't know think that necessarily means that I am ignorant about my own religion/culture or anything like that. I was raised as a reform Jew and so a lot of the orthodox stuff I'm just really unfamiliar with. Obviously there would be no way the stewardess could tell what he was doing. At the same time, if he gave an explanation and was completely peaceful during the whole process, I'm not sure if this warranted landing the plane early and checking him out. Additionally, I feel Americans are extremely ethnocentric, and don't go the extra mile to try and understand some nuances of the people who actually live on our soil. Lots of people try and refer to America as a melting pot, a place where all cultures can thrive and can contribute to what we have here. But if no one takes the time to understand the variety of people, the whole melting pot thing doesn't really matter, and it becomes more of a hodgepodge of people that don't really know that much about each other. Something else to consider is that maybe the boy should have realized that wrapping himself in a tefilin on an airplane may not be the best idea in the world. This is a very slippery slope. In the world before 9/11, I think people would just have thought he was weird, and not necessarily have actually been scared that he might be attempting to do something to the plane. However, if people begin to take precautions they are limiting their own freedom of action. By trying to make sure other people are completely comfortable with a ritual, you kind of place a stigma on something that is completely ordinary and peaceful. People should definitely try and take the time to absorb other cultures. We also can't get stuck into a rut of fear, having planes land for all sorts of perhaps 'outlandish' yet completely harmless things. One final thought is that no one did anything wrong in this incident, and it is simply a learning experience that perhaps can open other people's eyes up as well.

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  45. Yushi says:

    That's true– although we are all called human beings, we still have a lot differences– and this differences divided us into different groups. The thing is who made the rules? The rule/law maker might not be as considerable as they should have been like. There might be miscommunication and misunderstanding among different groups. So things like the Jewish boy faced happen. This story taught me to be ready to accept others ideas/opinions when there are misunderstandings.

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  46. klpeace1 says:

    This story was very interesting to me. It was difficult for me to pinpoint who, if anyone, was in the wrong in this situation. I am not Jewish, and even though I like to consider myself someone with an awareness of other cultures,had never seen or heard of a teffilin before. It is unfortunate that in this country so many people are often blind to other cultures and religions, and anything that seems different than what could be deemed "standard American" tends to scare us, but that is the way our country is. And with the country in the heightened state of security it is currently in, is, to put it mildly, skittish. It is hard to say that this flight attendant, while she is perhaps not the most well educate on other cultures and perhaps a bit paranoid, is in the wrong. She was only trying to do her job. It was simply an unfortunate situation and a bit of a sorry comment on America and how scared we are of other cultures.

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  47. ajb81 says:

    I agree with the flight attendant’s actions, even if they were a little extreme. You have to be cautious when dealing with airline travel because of the ways it has been attacked by terrorists in the recent years. It is unfortunate that no one knew about the ritual prayer with the teffillin but to be honest I did not know about that, and if I was a passenger on that plane, I probably would have been frightened by that sight as well. I like how the family understood the authority’s actions and did not make a big deal out of it. They knew it is not a well known practice and did not get overly sensitive about it which is very impressive these days.

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  48. mrh5164 says:

    This article and situation reminds me a lot of when I was traveling overseas a few years ago. We were waiting in line to get on the plane in New York and a large group of men wearing black coats and hats and being what I can only presume was Jewish were standing around. At a precise time they all started praying out loud and rocking back and forth. Of course, jokes started flying around me made by ignorant people who aren't aware of the religious culture and beliefs that other people hold.

    These men ended up being on our plane, which was an 8 hour trip to Germany. Throughout the trip, the men would get up and do this prayer on the plane. At one point I saw a few flight attendants conversing and looking at the men who were crowded around in the only open space on the plane in front of the bathroom. They were all reading from a book and praying out loud, along with the rocking back and forth I had seen previously. After a bit, one of the flight attendants asked them to stop and sit back down in their seats. One of the men got angry about this but thankfully the flight attendants were able to calm him down and they all returned to their seats with nothing more than a small argument to show for it.

    Although this is different than the situation talked about by Sam, it is similar in the fact that people simply weren’t and still aren’t acceptable or knowledgeable to cultures, ideas, and religions outside their own. Sometimes I wonder if the stereotype of the dumb ignorant American is really true. When you look at other countries, most people are bi- or trilingual. They grow up with a lot of culture, pride, and know much about their surroundings and the people around them. I saw this first hand when I had a discussion with two Australian brothers who were traveling the world and stopped at a friend’s house. I can honestly say they knew more about the American system, both governmental and schooling, than any of us Americans did. They were genuinely interested in how our country worked in retrospect to their own. The only insight we seemed to have about Australia was kangaroos and Vegemite. Are Americans as culturally sheltered as other nations make us appear to be? There’s really no way for us to tell. Hopefully issues like this won’t arise anymore, but unfortunately they will. With Arabs being targeted for screening in airports, it is guaranteed that something of the sort will happen again. People are being targeted for their race, religion, and sexuality on a daily basis and there isn’t much we can do about it.

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  49. jontroy88 says:

    After reading this article I was not surprised that the plane diverted to Philadelphia. In today’s times, especially on airplanes, we cannot be too careful of the people that go on to airplanes. If the flight attendants did not know what the guy was wearing then they made a decision to land quickly just in case. It was just to be cautionary, which I respect that decision. However, I have no idea what tefillin is but if I saw someone that was wrapped in it I would be a little worried especially on a plane. The teen did what he thought was acceptable and that is fine. He did not cause any harm to anyone, maybe get to Kentucky a little later but that is about it. It is crazy to think how this is so out of the norm for us and to him it was something he did normally.

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  50. This issue is extremely interesting to me and in my eyes it could be the product of two things. The First possible cause of this occurrence is society as a whole always being afraid and paranoid. It kind of seems as though that is how the world is nowadays. A country that used to appreciate an innocent until proven guilty way of life seems to be different. It is as though everyone is on edge and has more stress in their lives, as though society as a whole in the United States has shifted into a sense light panic at all times.
    The other thing that this is a product of is simply prejudice that seems to be so prevalent in so many places. People are misinformed about the others that surround them and that leads to situations like these, where we have a perfectly calm person and flight interrupted because of ignorance. And, although it was a simple mistake, it is really a tribute to how things have changed and people cannot appreciate others.
    The whole situation seemed well handled I thought. I mean, I would normally hope that nothing like that would ever have to happen, but now that it did it was handled smoothly. The issue is really that I think that way though. I should not think that it would be alright for that mistake to occur at all. It should not be small news for something like that to happen in society, but it just is.
    I think that the way to help this situation is to be more informed. There should be more focus on various cultures in school I think. It is funny how so many things stem from the elementary and secondary education, or lack thereof. If there was more education about other cultures in elementary and secondary school then there would be much less issues for future generations. People need to just pause for a second and open their minds and realize that the United States is diverse and that’s ok. I kind of wish that people could all go to Sam’s class, or that everyone would just watch Sam’s class. The reason is because he does a good job to focus on all the right topics in order to get his point across. And the way that he discusses things and covers different issues does a good job to demonstrate what is and what should be.
    The last thing that I have to say about this is that I hope that the news continues to cover as many stories like this as possible. I feel like the best way to deal with this is get it out in the open, and help people to become more or better informed about the world around them.

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